Sunday, January 25, 2009

Lelaki dan Wanita


Lelaki bujang menanggung dosa sendiri apabila sudah baligh manakala dosa gadis bujang ditanggung oleh bapanya. Lelaki berkahwin menanggung dosa sendiri, dosa isteri, dosa anak perempuan yang belum berkahwin dan dosa anak lelaki yang belum baligh.

Hukum menjelaskan anak lelaki bertanggungjawab ke atas ibunya dan sekiranya dia tidak menjalankan tanggung jawabnya, maka dosa baginya terutama anak lelaki yang tua.Berlainan kepada perempuan , perempuan hanya perlu taat kepada suaminya. Sekiranya seorang isteri berbuat baik kepada suaminya maka pahala akan dapat kepadanya dan jikalau berbuat yang tidak baik dosanya ditanggung oleh suaminya.

Suami diwajibkan memberi nafkah kepada isteri namun tidak bagi seorang isteri walaupun isteri boleh membantu. Haram bagi suami bertanyakan mengenai pendapatan isteri lebih-lebih lagi jika menggunakan pendapatan isteri tanpa izin.

Dan jika dilihat banyak lagi amanah dan tanggungjawab yang Allah kurniakan kepada insan yang bernama lelaki, lebih-lebih lagi kepada mereka yang bergelar si suami. Mengikut kajian yang dilakukan juga,nyawa seorang wanita lebih panjang daripada seorang lelaki, mungkinkah kerana bebanan dan amanah yang dipikul ini begitu berat untuk dilaksanakan? atau mungkin kerana memekikirkan beratnya dosa-dosa yang terpaksa ditanggung.

TETAPI seorang lelaki ada keistimewaan-keistimewaan yang dianugerahkan oleh Allah SWT.


Auratnya lebih susah dijaga berbanding lelaki.

Perlu meminta izin dari suaminya apabila mahu keluar rumah tetapi tidak sebaliknya.

Saksinya kurang berbanding lelaki.

Menerima pusaka kurang dari lelaki.

Perlu menghadapi kesusahan mengandung dan melahirkan anak.

Wajib taat kepada suaminya tetapi suami tidak perlu taat kepada isterinya.

Talak terletak di tangan suami dan bukan isteri.

Wanita kurang dalam beribadat kerana masalah haid dan nifas yang tidak ada pada lelaki.

Pernahkah kita lihat sebaliknya??

Benda yang mahal harganya akan dijaga dan dibelai serta disimpan ditempat yang tersorok dan selamat. Sudah pasti intan permata tidak akan dibiar bersepah-sepah bukan? Itulah bandingannya dengan seorang wanita. Wanita perlu taat kepada suami tetapi lelaki wajib taat kepada ibunya 3 kali lebih utama dari bapanya.
Bukankah ibu adalah seorang wanita ?

Wanita menerima pusaka kurang dari lelaki tetapi harta itu menjadi milik peribadinya dan tidak perlu diserahkan kepada suaminya , manakala lelaki menerima pusaka perlu menggunakan hartanya untuk menyara isteri dan anak-anak.

Wanita perlu bersusah payah mengandung dan melahirkan anak, tetapi setiap saat dia didoakan oleh segala haiwan, malaikat dan seluruh makhluk ALLAH di mukabumi ini, dan matinya jika kerana melahirkan adalah syahid kecil. Manakala dosanya diampuni ALLAH swt (dosa kecil).

Di akhirat kelak, seorang lelaki akan dipertanggungjawabkan terhadap 4 wanita :
3.anak perempuannya
4. saudara perempuannya.

Manakala seorang wanita pula, tanggungjawab terhadapnya ditanggung oleh 4 org lelaki ini :
3.anak lelakinya
4.saudara lelakinya

Seorang wanita boleh memasuki pintu Syurga melalui mana-mana pintu Syurga yg disukainya cukup dengan 4 syarat sahaja iaitu dengan :
1.sembahyang 5 waktu
2.puasa di bulan Ramadhan
3.taat kepada suaminya
4.menjaga kehormatannya

Seorang lelaki perlu pergi berjihad fisabilillah tetapi seorang wanita yang taat akan suaminya serta menunaikan tanggungjawabnya kepada ALLAH akan turut menerima pahala seperti pahala orang yang berperang fisabilillah tanpa perlu mengangkat senjata.
MasyaALLAH,sayangnya ALLAH pada wanita!

Seorang wanita adalah pelengkap dan sememangnya istimewa di sisi seorang lelaki tetapi ingatlah wahai lelaki,
kamu sebenarnya adalah istimewa disisi Allah,
maka dengan sebab itu DIA mengangkat kamu menjadi pemimpin.

Maka dengan keistimewaan itu,
JAGALAH dan HARGAILAH wanita sebaik-baiknya,
supaya kelak dapat pulang mengadap Allah swt dalam keadaan istimewa disisiNYA.

Hopefully Indera menjadi seorang lelaki yang baik dan bertanggungjawab.. haih~
Ajim2.. ni aku tujukan kepada ko.. hahahaha~

Untuk renungan bersama~ ^___^

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

A Little Update

A few unforgettable moments that happened to me these past few weeks..

First day at College on 2009, 5 Jan to be exact
Great! My first day at college really great!! I really mean it~ Scored a bull's eye today, Syireen threw a punch at me on my left eye.. This incident happened right after Ausmat Briefing session came to an end.. She did it on purpose! (hahaha!)
No.. she didn't mean to do that.. Was it so hard to say sorry even you didn't do it on purpose?? I'm not angry at you at all.. In fact, I've never taken it as a something big.. but please, say sorry at least?

Be nice to people around you okay? *Masih terasa sakit 'till you say sorry*
No hard feelings Syireen, just wanna demand an apology from you.. ^___^

January 8, 2009
English, Ms Chan..
Oh well.. during english time.. "Part 1 take 1, and... ACTION!" What a 'lucky' me to be.. Being a beverage machine was of course something that I'm no good at all.. My line was "bushhh, bing, bang! ... your beverage is ready!" hahaha I had to imitate all those sounds that seemed awkward to be heard of.. Damn! everyone was laughing at me! I tried really hard y'know!! yea.. Maybe Indera should learn and imitate a lot more voices of machine and sound of electronic devices so Indera won't be a freaking-imitating-beverage-machine-staying-dull-at-a-corner in front of class anymore!!.. When I'm writing this post, I'm shyly blushing!! DAMN IT!! Go away blush!! Shoohhh~

Tomorrow and the day after tomorrow..
Routine went on as usual, Main Office is the place i visit every morning.. hmmm.. except Wednesday!! Wow2.. No class today!

One week passed

January 13, 2009

Time frame : between 3-5 p.m.

With the speed of lightning.. We went to Subang.. WE?? Nurhaniff and I definitely! (Do note that after this, Nurhaniff will be Nur, it's purposely to prevent an ambiguity between Nurhaniff and Hanif..

Now, where were we? Oh ya.. The journey was boring all the way long 'till we arrived at Subang, it took us about 40-45 mins to arrive at a place that were intentionally heading to.. Road was busy as usual, congestions were normal to people living here, respectively to those who commute every single day, morning and evening to their working place and home..

Now what were we doing here actually?? AAARRGGGHHHH!!! In a blink of eyes, a wreckless driver with his old-fashioned car, urmm.. Nissan(cant recall what model was that) if i'm not mistaken abruptly overtook a car in front of him.. well, he was actually at the opposite side of us, so he was in different lane, y'know what i meant.. Can you imagine how was that possible.. We were travelling at the centre of road, right, this is my lane, so i can be wherever i like.. simple because there was only a scooter at that time, yeah it was us.. so if something 'lucky' happened to me and Nur, that could be the last moment we could breath assuming that head-to-head collision occured.. I was really scared to death as if my blood was running away from me, and my mind played a fool with me..

The feeling was like, "Hey! Am I still alive? Am I still breathing" and trust me, I held a tight grip on the scooter's throttle.. Did I mention that honestly I stopped breathing for about 1 to 2 mins?
Yeah! I was gasping for a tons of O2.. To keep my cool head, to comfort my uneasiness, and to make sure that I still on earth.. Oh wow!! I didn't know what happen to Nur, he took quite a long pause.. No.. we didn't get involved with any accident, and it was a swift escape.. Thank god!!

'nuff talking bout others' misbehaved attitudes on the road.. So here's how the story ended..
Nur's got a new Motorcylce!! Modenas Kriss 120.. green in colour!! Yay! Same colour with my scooter.. and why do you pick such colour Nur?? Answer me!!

I hate traffic congestions!! Nur was left far behind when i was zig-zag crossing all the cars in front.. This time, Nur was on his own beloved-bike plus with non stop smiling ear to ear that i could see from his fair face.. I overpassed everyone with the speed of 90mph.. Suck! It was fast as in no vehicles are on my way.. Luckly, i had acquired the skill of 'mencilok'.. so, traffic jams arent a problem for me.. Once i got home, i had to wait another half and hour.. and Nur was damn late.. because traffic congestions all the way going back to BU had caught him.. He stucked a few times and the last time i saw him was on my last glimpse to my side mirror.. and after that I noticed he's out of my side anymore.. Both of us were painfully exhausted in the agony of congestion.. once he got home, no more smile ear to ear and it turned out to be something else.. and till now, if i recall that day, the excruciating faint still can be felt.. sigh~

p/s : Kriss 120 was bought years ago.. Nur's father posted this machine to Subang, so that's how we got there and picked up the nicely-wrapped package.. no such thing~! bikes cant be wrapped up!
-be a good road user, don't make others angry!
-what would you do if you see someone's wallet on the road when you are stucked in a time consuming congestion?? would you go out from your vehicle and grab the once in a blue moon opportunity??

With love? No, with a smile ^___^
Indera yang suka merapu..
Ko lagi merapu Ajim!!
Asal with love lak kat blog ko??
Bajet jambu la tuh??
Dah la tukar name Jane..
Name Khair Azim kan sedap je dengar..
X yah bajet nak jadi foreigner laa.. Be proud of your name!
Best pe name ko..

(tetibe ade name ko kat sini lak)

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Laskar Pelangi - Nidji

Thursday, January 1, 2009


At first jumpe
langsung tak kenal,
bile dah mesra
perangai makin nakal

Sejak kau tiada,
aku sering menyendiri..
berbual dengan pokok betik
untuk mengisi masa lapang..

aku mengikat botol oren
pada tiang rumah
agar nampak cantik..

Saban hari aku termenung
di dalam peti sejuk..
mengenangkanmu yang berada
jauh denganku..

Aku cuba bermain badminton
sambil makan mi hailam
untuk mengurangkan perasaan rindu
tapi aku tak terdaya..

Lalu aku membelasah
4 ekor itik serati jiran sebelah
sebagai tanda
aku amat rindu padamu..

Biar hilang nyawa
asalkan tak hilang seseorang
seperti kamu.. = )

Happy New Year Everyone!!
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