Monday, August 10, 2009

forgive yourself..

Many things bumped into me lately, my dear friends have their own problems, so do others. Yes, I mean 'friends'. Each and everyone of them has their own personal problems. Nothing much I can do for them. Well, for now..

However, I do believe in other people's experience.

They just need to an ear to hear and a shoulder to cry on. That's enough and that's what I think. Ohh, and yes, they need a sincere heart to share their difficult times.
That's okay, everyone has ups and downs. I'm ready to be there when you need it. If there's a person in this world who has no hard times in his life, I bet he would be the most boring and lame person ever existed in this universe. Huhh? Why is that so?

Life's unpredictable, and imagine if you never had a single fault in your life and you are happy all the time. Wouldn't that be boring? I mean, hey.. sadness is part of life, isn't? Humans are full with emotions, that's the fact. Back to the basic root, we are all human, not animals, they ain't got no emotional sensations. We, humans, are given such wonderful feelings to have moods. Therefore, be thankful to God and appreciate it while it lasts.

Sometimes, I don't know what to say to my dear friends out there. But, how long it gonna stay like this? Don't terminate your ownself. Give it a break! I know it's hard. The fact that I know you ever since we first met, you are not fool hardy. What is more, you are smarter, well-rounder than me. I know, people made mistakes, we all know. Often, you have forgiven the ones who treat you badly, but, have you ever forgiven yourself? Please.. if you are in silent mood, no one won't know what's the problem, but people would notice you are in trouble. Seriously, action speaks louder than word. All in all, I do hope you will forgive yourself. That's the first step, most crucial part, to get rid of the bugging stuffs in the mind of yours.

In case you are in profound grief, believe in ALLAH/God and have faith with HIM. No matter what happens, HE will always be the greatest ear to hear and enormous shoulder to cry on. Do make sure you discover your innerself first, as the saying goes, "God helps those who help themselves"

Don't worry be happy = )
It's only a matter of time.
Once you realized it,
I'm sure you will giggle to yourself.

To all readers, you guys are free to drop a comment regarding this matters. A comment of yours, who knows, would create a shining bulb on my head to help my friends here. Just share to me, what would you do, if your friends abruptly have problematic disorder and turns into someone else. For most cases, he/she would turn their back on you. Thanks = )


nasyrah ash said...

i just want to say thanx

.::annemishi::. said...

u got the points here.

what if i have a prob which is i HATE someone..but still i love that person.

haha~ wut kind of prob is this??

khair 3rd said...

2 komen atas tak boleh pakai langsung

bagi aku
-face the problem, settle it. No procastination. Makin lama makin serabut

-masalah akan berlalu begitu saja, tup tup, dah settle.

-test from HIM is just a test, not a problem.

-test yang diberiNya ader hikmah (ni aku baru blajo dari abg aku)
>membe buat perangai, improve communication skill ko, camne nak cakap ngan dia elok2

p/s:general sangat aa soklan ko, ape masalah membe ko sebenarnya?. Peer pressure, financial probs?

Indera Putera Kayangan -Mus- said...

to Nasyrah :
you are welcome..

to AnneMishi :
tu maknanya cam lagu Yuna Dan Sebenarnya.. angau kot.. haha

to Khair 3rd :
ohh macam2 Ajim..

FYI, problems tu aku accumulate, not from a single person, like i wrote, "friends"
it's like a compilation of difficulties that i heard being briefly told in one go..

aishah ibrahim said...

sangat complicated.

NanNaE-naNnA~ said...

smile indera
be happy...and then smile some more

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